I talked to Rain on you site and he said he told you what to ask your host, it has to be something on there end. I am out for the next few days, I will get back with you if he has not forwarded you the info I sent him.
IPN message notification was disabled, and our paypal IPN link was pointing to the wrong URL. Once we enabled IPN notification, and changed the URL, donations are automatically getting confirmed instantaneously.
Our old donation plugin (AWC) was in the way. It has been rectified.
Hi Ozzy,
The IPN messaging was disabled on the paypal side, they had to enable it, afterwards we did a test donation and everything went through fine.
Now to see Paypal IPN settings you would have to go here: My account tab > Profile > My setting tools > Instant payment notifications (Middle of the list) > Update.
After changing Message delivery to enabled from disabled the product confirmed the donations immediately.